Showing posts with label Awards. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Awards. Show all posts

Friday, 7 January 2011

A debtor's honour

A very useful debt help organisation called the Consumer Credit Counselling Service (CCCS) emailed me to tell me they had selected my blog as one of the top ten thrifty blogs! Now lets remind you all how and why I'm considered thrifty. Well I have endeavoured over a number of years to curb my spending and be less materialistic. I've come a long way on this road. However I added to my debt by undertaking a masters degree. I was very lucky that in the midst of the worst financial crisis, while all the banks were collapsing, I actually put in for a career development loan - there were 3 banks affiliated to this Government scheme and I choose the Cooperative Bank on the basis of years of socialist indoctrination by my parents. How glad was I! They said yes within a week and as Mr MDS was being rushed in as a crack team of accounts to Lehmans as they hit the bottom and all over the place financial misery abounded, I found myself in possession of loan to help fund my studies.

I was hardly flush when I started my MA but with a frugal regime and working when I could I got by. Like any student I exited with a debt. The benefit of a career development loan is that the repayments don't start until a month after you've finished and the interest rate is exceedingly low and you have 24 months to pay it off. I also pay in a bit extra to build up my Co-op bank account. They give you an account and I have never used it save for the mechanics of paying off my loan.

Of course I would have loved to have had enough to support myself but when you have a home to run, childcare and the rest, I'd really never saved a great deal. Then of course I had all the expenditure of travel, books and small things which were extremely useful like membership to the BFI whose library I lived in, as well as London College of Fashion's and Central College St Martin's.

All in all it mounted up and whilst I did a horrendous stint at a shopping centre every weekend for a month doing a style event, it was all to fund my short film. In all I graduated with a £2,800 career development loan, an £1000 overdraft and £3,000 on my credit card which was only £1000 before so I'd dented it quite a bit. The loan covered my fees and the £3,000 I'd accumulated as additional debt was due to attending college and living expenses.

I was very good I'd like to add. I made my own sandwiches for lunch and had extra things like a banana or a bag of nuts in case I got hungry before I got home. I took a flask with green tea in and only occasionally bought a coffee. I also refilled a water bottle every day with my own tap water. I dyed clothes and altered others. If I bought anything it was from Topshop and Dorothy Perkins as I had 10% student discount. I grew vegetables and herbs at home although this is never enough to live off every week. I also made all my own bread by hand. Mr MDS mucked in to and we rarely went out save for really special occasions.

Every month I made a meal planner and stuck to it, this kept the monthly shop down. Of course I did all my own cleaning, washing and ironing and still do!

At one point I think I even cut my own hair and I became a dab hand at diy bikini waxing. My most extravagant purchase was a necklace from Wendy Brandes a Little Woolf because I needed a talisman to help me when I wrote my dissertation.

Now my debt is entirely self inflicted and before my good choice debt, the Masters, I had made bad choice debt with spending too much on clothes in a thoughtless, almost shopaholic way. I honestly feel sick sometimes when I think the money I wasted. Particularly as you never know what is around the corner.

This year I'm going to increase my frugal methods in the home. I can't emphasise enough how important it is to make a meal planner, it saves you over buying and focuses you on what you can make for a specific budget a week. Food has definitely got more expensive but I always make the meals, ultimately it always works out cheaper to make your own food. I would quite happily live off vegetables, lentil and quinoa but I think my family might go to McDonalds if I did that.

When is comes to clothes shopping I have reigned that in ten fold. I went for 3 months well in the end it was 4 months without buying a thing. This really broke my habit. Now I'm on a style challenge and it means I can only buy designer clothes and guess what it is much harder to do that then a cheeky high street shop. I also love the idea of neutral shopping, selling items on ebay to buy one item you really want. The Queen of Thrifting has to be Sharon Rose of My Style, Thrifting, Fashion and Me she cut her debt by buying items only from charity shops and car boots sales.






The most important thing to remember when you do get into debt is what you can do to get out of it. It is no good beating yourself up but it can happen to the best of us for a whole heap of reasons. CCCS offers free debt help and you should never pay for any advice. I'm going to check out all their advice and tips as 2011 is the year to get truly solvent.

Friday, 9 April 2010

Making awards more relevant

It was lovely to receive a beautiful blogger award from Siljes Fashion as in bloggy years I feel I've known her forever. Always the Norwegian beauty Siljes has a very enviable style which she achieves with ease.
Now the point is to reveal 7 things about myself ...now before you yawn, I'm changing it to share 7 no fritter/make do/girlynomics tips.

1. Set yourself an annual clothing, shoe and accessory budget, then divided by 52, this is the amount you have each week to spend. Stick to it. You don't have to spend it every week but it enables you to spend if you want/need to/the fashion universe speaks to you. And you can of course save it up and spend 5 weeks worth in one go.

2. Have a little black book of your fashion purchases in your bag. Have all you clothes itemised and categorised. You should do this two ways - make one list of items as garments i.e. skirts, dresses etc. And then as colour categories i.e white, 3 x shirts, 1 x dress etc. This should stop you buying yet another white t-shirt, pair of black trousers - whatever your pattern is/are.

3. Only shop by yourself. You have to be objective so no being swayed by a friend. Learn to trust yourself even if this means making mistakes. Selecting clothes and developing your own style is like learning to drive a car. You'll pass your test in your own time. If in doubt about an item walk away.

4. Ignore shop assistants. I think I'm the only shop assistant who ever told customers when something didn't work. These days targets means extra money so they are motivated by this. Don't judge them it is the system. Use your eye be you own critic - see above.

5. No shopping on an empty stomach, bad hair days or when you are feeling fat. Don't do it. Learn to recognise the signs, the bit where you are mean about yourself in the mirror. Some days we are just not meant to try on clothes, you are just going to hate yourself in them. It is being hormonal, it strikes everyone even men!

6. When you need a new pair of jeans or dress or shoes, just shop for that one item. Research before you go to the shops. Try as many on as you can in differing places and then buy the item you love the most.

7. Hindsight is a wonderful thing but take it from me, save before you spend. Stay in/on budget. don't buy on credit and you'll be glad of it in the long run even if it means you have to go without!
Then you'll be a beautiful blogger too .....

Please add any of your top tips!

Wednesday, 25 November 2009

Awards

I was very lucky to receive three awards from Wife in the City the other day.
This is very nice and also it gets me out of the hole which is proper posting (only a week to go on the MA front, I've got no library fines so fingers crossed I'll get a Masters).
I will be fully focused again after 4th December.





The over the top award has a question list to answer

1. Your hair: wavy bed head (not by choice) shoulder length
2. Your favourite food: Spaghetti Bolognese
3. Your dream from last night: Rewording the conclusion to my dissertation.
4. Your favourite drink: Dirty Martini
5. What room are you in: kitchen
6. What is your hobby: forgotten due to dissertation
7. What is your fear: being bitten by a snake
8. Where do you want to be in 6 years: Surbiton - I'm deadly serious!
9. Where were you last night: At home typing amendments!
10. Muffins: Blueberry
11. Last thing you did: Revise dissertation
12. What are you wearing: probably dressing gown and pj's I've lost the will/ability to dress
13. Your TV: X Factor, Ugly Betty
14. Vehicle: My Pashley bicycle
15. Your favourite store: Selfridges & Oasis
16. Your favourite colour: Red
17. When's the last time you laughed: All the time all though currently this might be due to despair or my grammar
18. When's the last time you cried: Currently I'm bereft of tears just experiencing tension!
19. Your best friend: Mr MDS and Mrs Miggins (not her real name!)
20. Favourite place to eat: Balthazar, NYC

I'm sure I'm meant to pass this on but I'm befuddled with words like hegemony...so help yourself!

Wednesday, 21 October 2009

Vote Make Do Style


In lieu of a good night out, it is a lazy posting day but a reminder to vote for me!
Vote here or on the image top right of blog. I don't know where I've got this competitive streak from it is hardly fashion!

Friday, 18 September 2009

Award(ed)


The lovely Sharon Rose has graciously given me an award! I feel honour bound to accept and pass on straight away otherwise I'll completely forget. Also I haven't forgotten my tie dye t-shirt comp, will announce winner next week as popping off to Paris tomorrow for the day...

I would like to award the following on the basis I am new to their blogs and have been enticed into their worlds and I like....

Miss Cavendish
The Small Fabric of My Life

Also Tor of FabFrocks for having the best smokey eye look - take a peek it is fab!

Anyway, love ya all! Have a great weekend. I'll be slacking as finally I tear my eyes away from rushes and editing to board Eurostar as petit garcon and I take Mr MDS on his father's day trip (we did book ages ago). A make do tip - I shopped/bought petrol, anything at Tesco and saved all my points as Airmiles to buy the Eurostar tickets.

Sunday, 31 May 2009

Much appreciated!

Can't think why my daily life was allowed to ruin my blog life when I get little tokens such as this ...
This gift of appreciation was from the ever resourceful and effervescent Sharon Rose.

I'm truly rubbish usually at posting such niceties and not very good at passing on so to speak ...therefore I'm dealing with this promptly and going to award an old follower the talented and inspirational Delicious Industries and a new be blogger and follower Looking fab in your forties - keep it up!!

There are lots of you lovely bloggers and readers and I could bestow this award in you all but I'm in the midst of cooking Sunday lunch, fretting about my presentation to the external examiner on Wednesday about my MA dissertation proposal. Thank goodness for Style magazine for a distraction on all things clothes and make up!


PS am I the only person who feels very sorry for Susan Boyle losing last night. I did vote for her in case others didn't but Diversity were my first vote and choice, as I loved their brand of dance and performance from the off. I wanted them to win but voted for Susan as she has the loveliest of voices and has probably had the hardest week of her life. Bless her, isn't it awful when others take delight in your moments of confusion and despair. All I could think is how could you cope given you've never ever had sex and all your hormones must be going bonkers!

Thursday, 29 January 2009

Fab blog award


When the lovely Sharon Rose of Sharon Rose-Vintage Fashion, Me gave me this award the other day I decided to run it asap; as of late I've been completely remiss on this sort of thing and it is such a good way of showing support to every ones blogging efforts. I have to nominate ten bloggers and I'm loathed to pick just ten but here goes, ones that Sharon didn't get to first - oh and those of you who haven't got the will or time to carry it on don't worry just have a head swell mo instead!
1. Delicious Industries - this blog provides me with lots of amazing design images and inspiration every day!
2. Disneyrollergirl - I love reading a different perspective on fashion and garments and this blog delivers great quotes of the day.
3. CocosTeaParty - fab images and so well presented, mind you I'd go and look everyday just for the banner!
4. Dressed&Pressed- how I laugh when Denrele's being funny and I never want to be on the receiving end of a dressed and pressed rant - they are the best!
5. Mahalo Fashion - I don't know how Jen does the wonderful realms of images. It is always a visual feast.
6. Tales near the Runway - by rights I shouldn't give an award to someone who can only post occasionally (for very good reasons) because if you get hooked to this blog like me it is a bad habit just waiting and waiting... but worth it!
7. Style Salvage -I've dipped into this blog on and off but of late it has become my second favourite insight on menswear after David Mills in Style magazine (gosh hope Steve doesn't think that's an insult!).
8. The Fashion Assistant and her camera - Kit is so talented and hard working, it is a joy to see a such young female talent.
9. Wee Birdy - Stylish, cute and that's just the blog!
10. Goddamit I'm Mad - Ah Sister Wolf, never a dull moment and always a surprise thought and angle what's not to like.

Monday, 22 September 2008

Award ceremony


The talented and totally brilliant La Belette Rouge kindly gave me this delightful little award. I was second to Observationmode but I can't think of anyone better to be behind! It's nice to be appreciated and is timely as I deal with more tears induced by chicken pox - no not me the petit garcon. Mind you I'm close to the edge.....

Saturday, 13 September 2008

Blogging Award



The lovely Aliena of Same cat...different spots gave me an award.



I love her blog as it gives me a little inlet to Barcelona. Now I'm supposed to pass this award onto 8 blogs, which I'm going to find it hard to do seeing as most of you have already received one!!

I'm going to focus on the making do blogs - the ones that focus on finance, as you know I'm a finance first, fashion second type of gal. And now I'm going to be a stooudent for 15 months I need all the top tips I can get...

$haronRose -$pending, $aving, me - the thrifting diva gets personal with finances.
Skylark and Son - the antipodean thrifter who makes style almost out of zero.
Fashion Addict Rehab - for trying to beat the lure of the new and glitz, plus making a blogging comeback.
Grayburn - for the beauty product information, helpful in watching those pennies/cents

And for everyone else too! All fab....

Saturday, 6 September 2008

Blogger Award



The delightful Sharon Rose awarded me this blogging accolade which is a Portuguese number to do with recognising closeness of fellow bloggers

The sentiment is thus:

One is a charming blogger who aims to entertain, amuse other and be friendly in the process. Some horrors out there will receive this and cut it asunder not caring to forward and share the friendship - so lets give attention to the sharing, caring bloggers!

So I'm duty bound to deliver it to 8 bloggers who in turn may be friend or fiend and do the same (see Sharon Rose's post for the original text, I took liberties)

Therefore I select:

Mademoiselle M - as you may be stuck in doors with all the rain in Durham and pining for France

Imelda - as you're such a chap about town and will do something irreverent with it!

Skylark - actually for being truly one of those who are so friendly and nice and is a pure blogosphere delight.

L'Avent Garde - Lara as you are so lovely and such fun and so are your friends

Everybody Say's Don't - always friendly!!

Mud on my Teadress - just so you know you may be down under but you'll remain an honorary Londo(a)n Gal

Square Old Soul - for just picking the best songs on a Sunday, always an uplifting moment.

Observationmode - The Queen of friendliness and good blogging Karma